I love my daughters. And since the time they are born, I sing a song to them that you become beautiful when you have a beautiful heart and you do beautiful things. When they are growing up, I see them sometimes fighting over things like a hair clip and I ask them, why do you need a hair clip? Why do you need nail paint? (I do not use much of accessories or makeup, in fact, I do not have makeup. So now when they are learning new things, they are asking it to be ordered.) And every time they have a blank face. They do not know. And then I have to remind them that when you have beautiful thoughts and you do nice things like helping others, loving others, you become really beautiful. There is a difference between looking beautiful and being beautiful. And then somewhere they start thinking. How much they are absorbing it, I have yet to see but telling them every day is putting this in my heart and mind more and more. Everyday, I learn it more and more that there is a difference between looking beautiful and beating beautiful. I am not against looking beautiful but being beautiful is more important and to look beautiful one shall never ignore the more important things.
So you receive a gift box and when you open it, it has all the trash like torn papers, some dirt etc. But it was packed very beautifully. What would you do? You would keep it for the packaging or you would throw it away? I guess the later one. On the other hand you have a box, in its normal packaging or natural packaging and the content inside is good like delicious apples, what would you keep. The naswer is a no brainer. Understand one thing, the looks are defined by others and we shall never judge on the basis of how others are seeing. The real beauty is in who you are. How you think and what kind of things you do.
Like how honest you are, how you help others, how honestly you do your work, how much you are ready to stand by your family and friends, how genuinely you care, how much you try to keep everyone together, how you treat everyone including who are working for you and many more things. Every step will lead to adding to your beauty.
