Met a lady. Always calm and composed. I never heard from here what would happen now. She never said, anything which will make others fearful of a problem. Whenever there was a problem, she said that it will solve. Everything solves eventually. I asked her, howcome she was so strong always.
She laughed and said that because I have grown up watching he-man. (It was a cartoon character when and a super hero kind of character in 80s in India). She said that whenever she watched he-man, she always told herself that look at him, he solves everything and I can too. He can fight so many big things and I can too. And in the end because he keeps going ahead, he wins over everything. But he is very kind and loving. And he never thinks of harming anyone. So God is helping him. Even if we are very strong but we think of harming, we are standing against God and we can never succeed. So when there is a challenge in my life or someone else’s life, the first thing I do is, I solve it in my mind.
Instead of thinking like what would happen, what has happened, who is responsible for it, I start thinking it is anyway going to be solved. How would it be when it is solved. And also, then I start asking, how to solve it. In my mind, I do not increase the problem, I solve it. I start from the thought process that there is a way for it, and we need to find one. This saves my energy from any kind of argument or fight as there is no blame. When in my mind I am convinced it will be solved, I have over come my fear, it starts solving in my life. This is how I help everyone around too. I help them in over coming their fear of the challenge and when it is clear in mind, it solves in life.
