He was going through a divorce, and he wanted a fresh start. So he went to New Zealand. Fresh place, fresh people. Life is beautiful. You do not have to face anything. Divorce was completed after one year and he felt free. After two years he met another lady, and he really wanted to be with her. They got married but after three years, he felt that everything was falling apart. She wanted to leave. He asked for the reason, and she told him, she never felt that he was with her completely. Like some part was missing. He accepted that his thoughts bother him a lot. He really had to work on everything, resolve everything inside him.
He had to pay to people as he had taken huge loans. Finally, he managed to leave the country and he thought he never would have to pay them again. HE started a new business and after two years, there were huge losses. He had to again borrow money and the vicious circle started again. He wanted to run again but this time age was catching up, he had a family too. Earlier he was single. HE was in foreign land. He wondered if it could get more difficult.
We are here for a reason. We are here to learn and evolve from them. All the circumstances we go through help us with that purpose. If we try to run away from them, we create similar but tougher circumstances. So in reality we can never run away from them.
So what do we need to do?
We need to work upon them, face them, solve them. Until we solve them, we will create patterns and we will keep repeating them. Life is beautiful if we become it’s friends. It’s not our enemy. It is our friend. But we need to be with this friend and live its friendship.
