One couple came for help a few years back. They felt that they had inconsolable differences. The reason was two years back, the lady had a miscarriage. They both could not let it go. They both were fighting every day over that. They were blaming each other for that. I asked them, what would be better, to hold on to that or prepare for the new one? So they decided to start preparing for the new one. Everything needs to be done with that. So they started working on forgiving each other, preparing a room for the new one, donating stuff of the old one, also helping many poor children. They also thanked God for giving them an opportunity to welcome a new child. Very soon, let’s say within a year, the lady conceived and next year she delivered a healthy baby boy.
I remember, for 3 years I was so busy with raising kids that I could not focus on maintaining my home. I washed the curtains after 3 years. I used to feel bad. But when kids started going to school and I felt little grasp on time, I focused on what was left. When I washed them, I also cleared up space. gave away things which were not required. Old clothes, old furniture etc. I could feel the fresh energy and fresh space. I felt that something new was coming and it did. Along with that also came lots of abundance.
So declutter!
What all do we declutter?
All the negativity from mind. Whatever is bothering, just let it go. Forgive people. Forgive events.
Give away old clothes which you no longer wear.
Give away old toys.
Give away old dishes and utensils which you do not need.
Give away old furniture.
Clean up the hidden corners as much as you can.
Wash the curtains frequently.(They store lots of negative energy)
Use bells/conch shell or chanting sounds to get the energy moving everyday.
Open up the curtains and windows. Let the fresh air and sunlight enetr home. It will take out the stale air and energy from home.
Use incense sticks or camphor to burn the negative energy and create a better space.
Declutter and you will see the abundance flowing in.
